Are you single and dating again, and you have met some great men but do not know how to keep their attention with you? Well why not try using mens reverse psychology to get the man you want. There are many ways in which you can achieve this and knowing how you can do this is the key. Here we have the insight behind men's reverse psychology that does work time and again.So do what the men do to get you using reverse psychology.
You like him and want him
You have met a man and you find that you really do like him but he does not seem to be that keen on you, well to get him interested in you do not be so available the next time he calls. It is so typical that when people know that you do not have free time to have a chat or get together then when you do find time to spend with them this is when they will start to feel more special when they are with you. Also if you are on your way out to have a great time with friends and the man that you like asks if they can see you that night well you be honest and tell them that you have arranged to meet with friends and if they like they can meet you some other time, this also shows that you are loyal to your friends and they will appreciate and respect you for this.
Do not show great interest
It is far better that you actually show some disinterest and keep it on a friend to friend basis, this will make them keen to pursue you as you now have become a challenge, you can flirt a little but do not go overboard and any phone calls keep them short. So when they ask you out on a date do show that you are not super interested and if he is a popular guy he is not used to getting knocked back and told that he will be seen some other time because you are busy. This is when the challenge to get you will go into overdrive, as you become a prize in their eyes the one that they cannot have but have to work at to get. This is where people will tend to value what they do have to work for rather than something they are given.
Casually mention that there are others that have an interest in you
When you mention this to a man that there are others that are interested in you this is where they will step up and try and get into your life, as they do not want to loose their spot. As an example you can say that you are going to a specific event that is formal and they tell you that they hate going to formal events, this is where you can turn around and state that it is not a problem rather you know of someone else that loves to wear formal attire and be happy to accompany you do say it with a smile, this is where he will quickly change his mind and be happy to wear that tie.
Put up a challenge
When you put out a challenge of course they want to prove you wrong so they will go ahead and do the challenge so if you tell someone not to do something of course they will do it anyway. Another way to use a challenge to your advantage is if your partner does not want to do something for you, this is where you can turn around and tell them that it is fine and that you will get someone else to do it for you, as you understand that they don’t want to do it, this is where they will more than likely turn around and do it for you any way.
In a nutshell
When you use reverse psychology in love matters or in any aspect of your life you are basically doing the opposite to achieve what you want. So if you are madly in love with someone and they are not returning the love well this is where you do cool it and mirror them, before you know it they will turn around and give you what you want. So do use reverse psychology in love matters wisely. If you are only toying with someone then this is not fair to them, but if you have a genuine interest then why not play the game and use some reverse psychology.