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Are you in an unhappy marriage?

Are you in an unhappy marriage?

Are you finding that you are in unhappy marriage? This can happen when a couple are experiencing problems and all aspects of the relationship start to break down. Of course it can that you no longer love your partner or they no longer love you, these things do happen but before you go for the break up why not consider a break instead. This will give you both time to understand whether you should try and salvage your relationship or to let go completely. For many couples though it is the frustration of wanting to resolve issues but not having the proper skills to do this. We have the advice that will help you get your relationship back on track.

Signs your marriage is not a happy one

When you are experiencing the following this is where you will really need to look at many aspects of why it has lead to this point.

  • Lack or no communication
  • Living separate lives while together
  • No intimacy shared
  • No respect shown to each other
  • Constantly argueing
  • Your partner is having an affair
  • Dishonesty and no loyalty
  • Your partner tells you that they are no longer happy in the relationship

If you are experiencing any of the above then your relationship needs a complete overhaul where you can regain what you had in the beginning. If an affair is taking place well this is where it could head to a complete breakdown. People usually will turn to having an affair if they are no longer happy in a relationship.

Start to reconnect

This is important that you turn around and tell your partner that you are no longer happy in the relationship and that you would like to make a go of making it work again. If your partner would like to see the relationship get back on track they could be at first standoffish but they more than likely would agree. You could both organize a time where you both will be stress free and relaxed enough to re establish communication between you both. Do make sure that you inform your partner that this time is for understanding and resolving issues between you in a respectful way with each other.

Understanding each other

Once you have the communication happening again this is where you will both need to really sit down and understand each other like you both did in the beginning of your relationship, where you both wanted to be together and did your best to resolve issues. If your partner tells you things about yourself that you do not like such as you no longer look after yourself or that you have no respect for them etc. then do take note of it all, it is far better to have out the good the bad and the ugly between you both, and do understand that it is for the better, couples tend to keep on sweeping everything underneath the mat until it all builds up and then it all comes out in one big hit. So it is important that you do show that you do care, that you do understand, and that you do take responsibility in the break down of the relationship where it has become an unhappy one. Your partner will then see that you are trying and will more than likely be happy to join you and confess that he was not that great either and does want to make amends so you both are striving towards the same goal of healing the relationship between you both.

Re establishing intimacy

Depending how long you have been together it is always good to have a great sex life after all that is one of the reasons that you got with them in the first place wasn’t it. When you choose to spend time together, this is where your love bond will reignite, as you both show each other through intimate moments how much the love is there for each other, there are many ways in which you can keep it flowing between you both do ask and share with your partner what they would like to establish as a regular sex life between you both and in between you can always still share that loving feeling through hugs, kisses, and cuddles, you have chosen to be with each other so enjoy each other in the best possible way with loving each other through the special bonding of sharing and enjoying each other.

Make special time for you both

This is where you simply do either nothing at all and just relax in each others company sharing jokes, things of interest, or how you feel about things, but it is a time where there is no need to discuss pressing issues or problems rather it is a special time each week where you are both truly enjoying each others company. This is very important to every relationship to have this special bonding time out, and if it leads to lots of kisses, laughter, giggles, and cuddles well enjoy it all after all that is what you are there for.

In conclusion

Every relationship will have its moments where it will experience ups and downs, so of course no relationship will ever be perfect, we are all different and unique human beings. So rather than seeing it as a bad thing see it as a good thing that it has given you both the wake up call that you need to bring back the love, respect, care, understanding and compassion back into the relationship.

 

 

 

More Women Make Stand To Become Assertive

Always make your stand and be heard.

Always make your stand and be heard.

For all women they can at times find it difficult to be assertive with friends, family, co workers and partners. When they do they get labelled as bitches when all they are doing is that they are trying to make stand for themselves. So we are about to provide you with ways in which you can be assertive without having to be seen as a bitch or being bitchy. It all boils down to you being assertive in a positive way without stepping on anybodies toes.

If you have something valid to say then say it.

There’s nothing worse than talking to someone who wants to assert their position just because they can. This is where they will say a lot of things that make them appear as if they are an expert on the subject, even though it becomes obvious that they do not have a clue. So if you do have something to say and share then do so from a stance where you have the knowledge and or experience or you could end up looking like a fool. So in having this it is less likely for you to offend a person that you will disagree with if your opinions differ.

So do back up with facts in this way people will be more inclined to take you more seriously. They could also be grateful to you that you were assertive enough in telling them what is actually on your mind as you have provided them with insight on the subject and they actually learnt something from you.

Display a healthy level of confidence

It is good to display confidence when you talk to someone without being overly confident as this could turn them off you, and they will perceive you as been rude and a bitch. You do tread a fine line, so do say it with a level of confidence that you are being friendly rather than being a know it all. A great way to display confidence is in your posture, so walk tall and do look people in the eyes, carry yourself well and that you do believe in yourself 100%, even if you find that you are not totally confident in the situation what you will notice is that the way you walk will give you that little unexpected boost that will assist you to look and feel the part.

Remember your manners

When you forget your manners while talking to others this is where you will be doing yourself an injustice and been seen as someone who is rude and offensive and you will put them off with your behavior and they will not bother listening to a word that you say. So do show respect and manners when you speak to others and this will be returned to you. After all do unto others like you would like done to you. Be the lady that you are.

Stick to your goal

There are times when we can find it difficult to be assertive as we are afraid that we could possibly upset the other person and they could end up possibly not liking you. So if you are the type of person that likes to please people, then this could be difficult for you as you do not want to rock anyone’s boat. However it is important that you do stick with your goal, as an example you are trying to get a refund on an item and they are trying to shut you up and make you go away. They give you a difficult time so you just give up. But this is where you have to stand your ground and forge ahead any way even if it will make you feel uncomfortable. So do keep it in mind that there are times where it does become necessary for you to say exactly what is on your mind, this will also help the other person realize that they were not helpful to you in anyway. So  don’t be afraid to be the force when the situation calls for it.

Dont lose your values

Generally when someone feels like they have to enter into a disagreement or face someone that has a different opinion, it may be easy to agree just for the sake of foregoing an argument. No doubt you know that deep down that you do see things differently to them but you choose not say anything as you do not want to end up in an argument.

Certainly there is a time and a place for voicing your concerns and you don’t have to turn every difference of opinion into a war. But, you also don’t have to lie down and say nothing when you feel like your morals and values are being stepped on and walked over.

We all deserve to be respected, so if someone is showing you obvious disrespect for you or someone else then do stand up for yourself or them and share your opinion. So make the other person aware that you do not appreciate your feelings being violated or disrespected. Do though remember if you have offended someone by what you have said and you did it with kindness and respect then it is their problem not yours. So do not care too much what people think about you anyway. Rather it is up too them on how they choose to react to you and in do realize you really have no control over that , if you find that you respond in a way that is totally inappropriate then they will look the fool not you.

In conclusion

Do learn to stand up for yourself, and assert yourself in situations that do take strength and courage. Initially you may be scared to do it, but you will feel amazing when you do not let yourself be a doormat.

 

For A Happier You Live A Purposeful Life

The purpose of life

The purpose of life

Everybody no doubt has at one stage or another has asked themselves questions that relate to their purpose of living on this planet or what is exactly a purposeful life. Of course for some people they do understand what their purpose is and for others it can be a hard question to answer. The more we choose to understand our life purpose the more we are able to enjoy life. So do you know what your life purpose is?

Understanding your purpose

Basically you are here for a time, to live your life to the fullest, to experience the good the bad and not so ugly no one is born and receives an exemption card from anything, so what you live through, then it is all about how you choose to deal with it. There have been many a person that has struggled and been through so much in their childhood, who have experienced great trauma, and yet through their pains and sorrows they are able to stand up in the world and make a mark on it.

They choose to speak up and fight for the rights of children exposing the ugliness of what they experienced, or they choose to help others by writing books about their life experiences, or they choose to become great mentors in other peoples lives. So it is up to each person to understand what feels right for them then this is their purpose. It is about being of service to humanity, being the best person that you can be, making the world a better place to live in. Every day choices are also about your life purpose, the more you are able to do good, the more you believe in good, and the more you can radiate out this good in any shape or form then you are fulfilling your life purpose.

Why pain and suffering for so many

It is part of the journey of life, the lessons that come our way, how we choose to deal with them and still be at peace, it is about knowing and understanding that behind each and every pain and suffering there is more to it all. As when we see catastrophes that happen around the world so many people unite and have compassion for the ones suffering and the prayers abound the world, through grief, sorrow, sadness, and pain the world gets united when a world disaster occurs.

It brings out our humanness to care and to feel for the people that are suffering and it makes you want to do more, for some people they have actually left their home country to travel to another country that is experiencing a catastrophe to assist the people in need, where they have turned around and spoke that in such tragedy they found their life purpose as they were part of it all. They were able to help with whatever field of expertise they were in or whatever support they could provide. Yes when we see pain and suffering it opens our hearts to others.

Live your life filled with purpose

Do choose to live your life with a purpose, whether it is to help others in need, or in your spare time you can assist a charity or animal rescue shelter, or you can travel to other countries and offer your services to an organization that does require help then you will be fulfilling your life purpose. Every day that is lived with an intent to do good for yourself and others is a purposeful day that is lived. The effects of your goodness will ripple out time and again to others. So live your life each day with a great purpose in mind and fulfil it daily.

 

What Men Want From Women – In A Nutshell

The confident woman men want

The confident woman men want

What we are about to reveal to you are the universal truths about what men do look for from a woman who is their partner but can be stubborn to ask for it. Too true men do get emotional also please understand that at times they are afraid to show their emotions and feelings too. So if you want a man to love you then it is so simple become that woman, i.e. be real and true to who you are, the more you show your real self the more he will appreciate you and love you for you!

WHAT MEN WANT FROM A WOMAN THEY WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH

SEX!

And plenty of it, any time and any place, but it is not just sex men also want the hugs, the affection, the kisses, the smiles, and holding his hand, and giving him a spontaneous hug.

HONEST REACTIONS

That is right men do not like it when you fake it with them, rather they want your honest response so they know whether they are doing it for you or not. PS men can tell when you fake it so be honest.

COMPLIMENTS

Too true men do want to receive compliments just as much as women do, so if your man looks great tell him that he does.

LAUGHTER AND LOTS OF IT

Yes men love it when you can make them laugh, and that you do have a great sense of humor, and if you are a woman with a good one then you definitely will become extremely appealing.

ACCEPTANCE

Men just want to be accepted as they are, they do not want a woman to change them or go about renovating them. That is right they know they have faults and flaws like everybody else they just want you to look past them, and know that they are great men underneath it all. So do please respect and accept us as we as we are also striving to change our faults in our own way sweet ladies.

HONESTY

Every relationship has to start its foundation on honesty, and we expect it to start when we first meet you, so if you are truly interested please do not play hard to get if you do we might miss the sign that you are interested and if you are then go ahead gives the obvious sign and yes we will chase you.

SPACE

Yes men like to have space so do not go and try and crowd our space when we want time out with our friends, sometimes we like to be alone also. If you need a man to be with you all the time then you do need to get a life of your own.

COMMUNICATION

We appreciate it when you do express yourself, but we may not always agree with you, but we are glad that you do speak up as we are not mind readers, yes strong women are sexy to us and we love a confident woman.

BELIEVE

If you really do love your man, then do believe in his dreams as much as he does believe in yours.

TRUST

If there is no trust then the relationship will end, so if he tells you something then do take his word for it, and do not do constant check ups on him or try and trick him, trust is respect, and both parties in the relationship do deserve to be respected.

Create Attraction For All The Things You Want In Life

Universal laws at work

Universal laws at work

We all would like to know how to create attraction in all aspects of our lives to get what we want and to achieve our goals, hopes and dreams. So the best way to about helping yourself to create attraction is to sit down and have a really good think first of what you really want out of life in all aspects.

Your love life

Everybody wants a good and healthy love life, for some people that are single this is where they can hope to achieve this with their next partner. For people in relationships well the sky is the limit you can create the relationship you want by having a good think of exactly what you would like to achieve in your relationship.

So the foundation of helping you in creating and attracting the love life that you want is simple, it is up to you of course as you do have to list all what you would like then what you can help yourself with then go about doing it. Set yourself goals and achieve what you can do remember Rome was not built in a day either so things do take time to create. Want love in your life then you can create the following

  • Make a vision board of what you would like with your future partner or present partner
  • Change your bedroom round, and put splashes of red through out such as you can have all white with added touches of red pillows, red curtains, red flowers etc. Red is the symbol for love.
  • You can light 2 red candles to invoke the love into your life
  • Create your wish list and leave it to the universe
  • You can visualize your love relationship each night before you retire
  • Create your home to suit you and your partner

Creating and attracting financial abundance

We all want to prosper in life and have more than enough to live off day to day and have a comfortable and secure future. Well you do need to sit down and have a good think here also it is pointless to think that you want abundance you also have to stop and think how you are going to create it and how you are going to attract it into your life. The more you believe and focus that you will have more than enough to achieve your financial dreams then this is where you will experience it unfolding for you. Ways in which you can create and attract abundance are as follows

  • Keep a lucky abundance coin in your purse or wallet
  • Plant a prosperity tree or plant
  • Always think that you have more than enough
  • The citrine crystal is a great way to create and attract abundance into your life
  • Create an abundance vision board
  • Put a horse shoe on the front of your door.
  • Be in it to win it buy a lottery ticket now and again

Create attraction for all that you seek

It is simple to do but you must believe that you will get what you want, the best way to do this is to have trust but believe that you have it all today, do not let any doubt enter your mind as the moment you do you will weaken the attraction that you have created. It is your thoughts that create attraction for all that you seek, this is why when ever you do create something that you do want to attract into your life you must genuinely accept that it is the truth and it will be. This is where your subconscious mind has to link with your conscious mind once you have them both in sync then things will start to happen for you in a big way.

In conclusion

So the best way for you to create and attract all that you want is to simply believe that it will be yours, have faith and trust, but do be wise in what you wish to create and attract this is why you should think carefully of what it is and when you do receive it will it make you happy and how will it affect others, so do be careful in what you create and attract.