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How To Attract Partner Of Your Dreams

Love attraction

Love attraction

Are you single? Wanting to attract partner which is a select type of person into your life whom you can love, trust, care for, and enjoy a happy and loving relationship that has passion and romance in it? Well we all know what we desire and want to attract in a lover so how can this be achieved you may ask? Well it is quite simple really as long as you understand the process behind it then it will hold you in great stead to get the love of your life.

Let go of desperation

When we seek love this is where we can start to feel desperate, and it will overwhelm and eradicate our desire in wanting a love partner. With desperation, you think many a thing such as I am going to miss the boat I need to hurry up and meet someone, or I am tired of being single and I want to hurry up and meet that special someone and the list of desperation goes on and on, and of course you continue to limit yourself ever the more so. You need to let go of the desperation and the energy that is attached to it.

It is also far better for you to turn around and surrender to the light of divine love of the Universe. Rather imagine a beautiful light of divine love, a love that is pure and radiates light and just surrender to this beautiful sparkling light. Do understand that it is this light that created you, gave you all that you possess, and that this light loves you, and is powerful enough to create a beautiful reality fare beyond your wildest imagination.

When you fell in love that light was silently telling you what to do, only if you listened. So it is better for you to let go and surrender and start anew. Choose today to surrender yourself to the divine light and affirm to yourself that you surrender and allow the Divine Light to create a bright future, a bright love life for you. You know and accept the Divine will because the Divine will make your life far happier than you could possibly imagine. Once you do this you let go of any attachment to the result. Now the fun part begins.

Creating a beautiful love life

So once you are able to let go of any attachments that you have in regards to meeting the one you want, what you have done is that you have given the universe a strong and powerful signal that you are now ready for a loving partner in your life. If in the past your love relationship was one sided now is the time to create a both sided relationship. So remember your love story movie is all in your mind and your love story movie will create your reality. You have total control over your wonderful imagination so be wise to create a reality of your choice.

Now visualize or imagine your loved one in love with you. Previously you were the one in love now you visualize your lover is the one in love with you. Now you can keep affirming that your lover loves you do this over a period of 5 days then proceed to see yourself to making love to your lover how does it feel? So go about feeling the love from your future lover day in day out. The life you will have together see it feel the emotion behind it and be grateful for it. So keep imaging that you have this beautiful loving relationship with your lover.

Love and Gratitude have the highest vibration.

Your perfect relationship will manifest in all certainty. 80,000 thoughts a day is your thought karma. If Love and Gratitude is even in 80% of this thought karma you cannot imagine what a beautiful relationship you will create, far beyond your wildest imagination!

Message For Love

Message of love

Message of love

A beautiful message for someone who has ever loved someone

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful, is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that we finally meet that right person, we will know to be grateful for that gift.

Love is when you take away the feeling; the passion and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.

A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be, and you just have to let go.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.

It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve had until we lose it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone love in return – just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn’t be content it grew in yours.

There are things that you’d love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from, but don’t be so deaf as to not hear it from the one who says it from the heart.

Never say goodbye if you still want to try. Never give up if you still feel you can go on. Never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go. Love comes to those who still hope although they’ve been disappointed – to those who still believe although they’ve been betrayed – to those who still need to love although they’ve been hurt before, and to those who have the courage and faith to rebuild trust again.


Author – Unknown



Relationship Errors To Avoid

Avoid erring in your relationship

Avoid erring in your relationship

When we are in a relationship we can at times make relationship errors that can lead to a break up, most of these errors that we make are due to our own personal insecurities, not trusting enough, thinking that we are not good enough, and generally go about sabotaging a potentionally good relationship all because we have unfounded fears. So this is where you need to understand that no relationship will ever be perfect but you can aim for a relationship that is healthy, so do your best to avoid the following relationship errors.

Relationship error 1 Dishonesty

Trust is the foundation of any relationship it is important to establish trust, we do this by choosing to be honest with our partners rather than lying, cheating and generally being dishonest about things. We could lie about simple things such as where we spent our time, rather we prefer to lie as we think they might have an issue about it. So choose to be honest in your relationship.

Relationship error 2. The Ex

There can be times when you are in a relationship and think that your partner could be still possibly thinking of his/her ex. Well it can happen as we all can from time to time think of our past, or a song etc may trigger a past memory, this does not mean that you or your partner are still in love with your ex’s rather it is remembering a moment in time, the memory is there but the emotion has died, as they are with you know and enjoying the loving feeling with you. So rather than thinking that they are still in that space do talk and communicate what you think and feel, this gives them a chance to explain and put your mind at peace.

Relationship error 3. Disrespect

When we choose to disrespect our partners we are also letting them know that we do not care for them, and their opinions and thoughts are meaningless to you, when you keep disrespecting your partner, more than likely they will start to resent you for it, it is better to get to the bottom of the reason why you are doing this as their must be a reason for it. Once you are able to understand why then you can resolve this and show respect to your partner. Nobody likes being disrespected.

Relationship error 4 Cheating

Nobody likes to be cheated on, so if you are thinking of having an affair or a side fling then do realize that there will be consequences as time does pass and you will feel guilty about it, and it could lead to the break up of your relationship. So if you do not want your partner to cheat or have a fling on you then do not do it to them, if you are not happy in your relationship then it is better to let go rather than hurting your partner in the most cruellest way possible.

Relationship error 5 Addictions

Many relationships can suffer from addictions, such as alcohol, substance abuse, gambling just to name some, if you do have an addiction or acquired one then do get the help you need to get it under control. There is nothing worse than being with a partner that is out of control with their addiction. Better still try and understand why you have this addiction and how best you can resolve it for good.

Relationship error 6 Lack of communication

We can all get comfortable in a relationship and get into the fast pace of living life where we will tend to neglect our partner and not bother to communicate much with them, rather we go along our merry way, thinking all is well with the world and you find that one day your partner is saying good bye. It is important that you do take time out to communicate with your partner on every level, such as your private life with each other, your hopes and dreams, goals achieved, your intimate life, spending time out together just to catch up will help to keep the relationship alive and happening.

Relationship error 7 Letting yourself go

You have been together for a while now and you slowly let the weight creep on, you are eating more junk food, not bothering to look after your appearance like you used to, your home is becoming a mess and you are surrounded with a build up of everything, it is time to do a big spring clean of yourself and your home that you live in, when we add freshness to our home and our selves it brings a nice glow and energy to you. So always choose to look after yourself as nobody else will it is your body and nobody elses.

In conclusion

It is important to avoid relationship errors that can sabotage your relationship to the point of no return, always realize that the best option is to communicate with your partner, and be loyal and trustworthy, always look after your appearance, and believe that you can make the changes that are needed to make your relationship into a healthy one. If you have confidence and self esteem issues then do seek ways in which you can help yourself. Also relationships are a job so do nurture and look after and maintain it as you would your garden.



All Natural Ways To Improve Complexion Fast

Natural complexion treatments

Natural complexion treatments

As time passes we notice that our skin is changing for some it will be radiating that much more and for others they could be loosing that nice glow to it. So how do you improve complexion naturally without using harsh chemicals and see results fast. There are many great products available on the market that are made from natural products, but you can go to your kitchen cupboard and make your own beauty treatments and improve complexion naturally and quickly.

Water your best friend

It is important that you do drink plenty of water on a daily basis the required quota for your body. Water cleanses and purifies the body and helps to shift and remove toxins that are kept in your body, therefore it is vital to keep your fluid intake up and do make sure that you drink water through out the day. Water keeps your body nicely hydrated therefore giving your skin a beautiful glow. So start drinking water today and do observe the difference you will see within a week a change that you will be happy with. So keep that water pumping!

Exercise daily

It is good to start an exercise program that will suit your lifestyle, but if you are not really a person that does enjoy exercising as such why not consider going for a walk 3 to 4 times a week, or go for a swim once a week or switch on the music and dance, dance, dance. Finding some form of activity that is physical is a great way to exercise your whole body, if you have children why not have a game of tennis with them or soccer on a regular basis. So find the time each day to move your body where you get the muscles working for you and get fit again.

Benefits of Coconut Oil

Forget all your expensive potions and lotions and replace it with coconut oil and make it part of your regular beauty regimen. Coconut oil is loaded with Vit E and fatty acids  it also has anti fungal, anti oxidizing and anti bacterial properties which your body will love. Make sure that you purchase a cold pressed coconut oil to use on your body as it will have retained all the goodness of the coconut and this is where you will benefit from it.

Coconut oil for hair

Want shiny hair then you can use it on your hair to give it the gloss and get rid of the frizz, if your hair is dry and damaged just work it into the ends and leave on either over night or for half an hour before showering. After you have washed dryed and styled your hair you can rub a small amount into the palms of your hands and work it lightly through the tips of your hair and it will get rid of any frizzy hair. Coconut oil is great for a dry scalp where you apply it to your scalp and not only that it will encourage your hair to grow and keep it healthy also.

Coconut exfoliating facial scrub:

This is where you can mix equal parts of baking soda and coconut oil, proceed to massage into face then rinse of with warm water to remove baking soda residue.

Coconut oil for Rashes, Eczema, Psoriasis, dark patches on elbows or Severe Dryness

All you need to do is rub into the affected areas and allow time for your body to absorb the nutrients do treat daily as long as needed. 

Treating Acne with coconut oil

Make sure that you clean your face then apply a light coating of coconut oil and leave on overnight do let it absorb into skin for at least 15 minutes prior to going to bed, repeat this every night until you get the results the you desire, if you are dealing with acne on the back then do wash and dry your skin then apply some before going to bed at night.

Note: Some may experience an increase in oily skin and breakouts, this can be the case for several days (even a week or two) until the skin is detoxified.

Benefits of Apple cider vinegar

There are so many benefits and ways in which you can use apple cider vinegar which is natural and cost effective listed below we have it all for you.

Apple cider vinegar for hair

Apple cider vinger is great to wash away any buildup in your hair and also as a hair rinse, when used with baking soda in equal amounts it will help make strands shinier, reduce frizz and will seal the cuticles of your hair, not only that it will stimulate the scalp to promote hair growth.


If  you suffer from psoriasis then apple cider vinegar will help to reduce inflammation. You can also apply apple cider vinger to a cotton ball and use as a toner, which will help to minimise acne breakouts  and get rid of blackheads at the same time.


Mix apple cider vinegar with water, then swish around in your mouth. This antiseptic will break down plaque and bad breath-causing bacteria.

Face mask

You can combine equal parts of apple cider vinegar and green clay to get a fantastic face mask which will help to detoxify and act as a deep pore treatment leave on your skin for up to 10 – 15minutes before you rinse off with warm water.

Bath solution

Why not add one or two cups of apple cider vinegar to your bath as this will help to draw out toxins from within your body, which it will leave you with toned and moisturized skin.

Age spots and varicose veins treatment

It has been found that drinking apple cider vinegar mixed in water will help you maintain a youthful looking skin. To stop signs of aging which also includes age spots and varicose veins simply dab it on prior to going to bed of a night time.

Benefits of bicarbonate of soda

There are so many benefits to using bicarbonate of soda as a beauty treatment for your skin and hair, not only that it is natural and safe to use on a regular basis.


Bicarbonate of soda will help to remove any buildup in your hair simply wash your hair with about half a cup of baking soda and warm water once every two weeks, if you find that your hair is way too dry then add half a cup of vinegar to it instead of water as it will definitely remove any build up in your hair. You can also use it as a dry shampoo as it will remove grime and oil in your hair, all you have to do is sprinkle some into your greasy roots, scrunch it then use a fine comb to get any excess powder out.

Face wash and makeup remover

It makes for an excellent face wash and make up remover just add a small amount into the palm of your hand then add drops of water, then apply to your face, then proceed to rinse thoroughly after you are done.

Bicarbonate of soda bath

All you need is bicarbonate of soda. Sprinkle ½ cup of baking soda into a tub filled with warm bath water. Soak away the day’s stresses for 15-30 minutes. The baking soda will leave your skin refreshed and silky smooth.

Face mask

Combine 1 part bicarb soda and 2 parts oatmeal and a few drops of honey, add enough water to make a thick paste then apply to your face and leave it on for 10 minutes, then rinse off and enjoy your beautiful skin.

Benefits of Castor Oil

There are so many ways in which you can use castor oil, do make sure that you get a castor oil that is cold pressed as this would have all the retained goodness in it of the castor oil bean.

Hair care with castor oil

You can apply castor oil to the full length of your hair for at least 15 minutes prior to shampooing or you can leave it in over night as this will give you beautiful soft hair. Applying it to the scalp will help to stimulate hair growth. It is safe to also use on your eyelashes to stimulate growth.

Prevent wrinkles and sagging skin

Castor oil is very effective in removing wrinkles and improving the appearance of your skin and it will also assist in preventing sagging of the skin. All you need to do is massage it on your skin until it gets absorbed completely. Do leave it in overnight.

Get rid of dark spots and moles, skin blemishes with castor oil

You can use castor oil to get rid of skin moles simply mix the castor oil with 2tbsp of bicarbonate of soda apply this paste generously over the mole, repeat procedure daily until mole has gone. Also apply castor oil to age spots, sun spots, varicose veins, etc as it will help to rid you of them.

In conclusion

Any natural beauty treatment that you can get will benefit you in more ways than you can imagine, so be smart do look into using all natural products that will improve your skin and hair, the more you do use all natural products the more you save the environment. So be smart invest in all natural as these products are safe for the outside and safe on the inside. You reap the rewards of not loading your body with lots of toxins rather these natural products will help you to eliminate toxins.