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For A Happier You Live A Purposeful Life

The purpose of life

The purpose of life

Everybody no doubt has at one stage or another has asked themselves questions that relate to their purpose of living on this planet or what is exactly a purposeful life. Of course for some people they do understand what their purpose is and for others it can be a hard question to answer. The more we choose to understand our life purpose the more we are able to enjoy life. So do you know what your life purpose is?

Understanding your purpose

Basically you are here for a time, to live your life to the fullest, to experience the good the bad and not so ugly no one is born and receives an exemption card from anything, so what you live through, then it is all about how you choose to deal with it. There have been many a person that has struggled and been through so much in their childhood, who have experienced great trauma, and yet through their pains and sorrows they are able to stand up in the world and make a mark on it.

They choose to speak up and fight for the rights of children exposing the ugliness of what they experienced, or they choose to help others by writing books about their life experiences, or they choose to become great mentors in other peoples lives. So it is up to each person to understand what feels right for them then this is their purpose. It is about being of service to humanity, being the best person that you can be, making the world a better place to live in. Every day choices are also about your life purpose, the more you are able to do good, the more you believe in good, and the more you can radiate out this good in any shape or form then you are fulfilling your life purpose.

Why pain and suffering for so many

It is part of the journey of life, the lessons that come our way, how we choose to deal with them and still be at peace, it is about knowing and understanding that behind each and every pain and suffering there is more to it all. As when we see catastrophes that happen around the world so many people unite and have compassion for the ones suffering and the prayers abound the world, through grief, sorrow, sadness, and pain the world gets united when a world disaster occurs.

It brings out our humanness to care and to feel for the people that are suffering and it makes you want to do more, for some people they have actually left their home country to travel to another country that is experiencing a catastrophe to assist the people in need, where they have turned around and spoke that in such tragedy they found their life purpose as they were part of it all. They were able to help with whatever field of expertise they were in or whatever support they could provide. Yes when we see pain and suffering it opens our hearts to others.

Live your life filled with purpose

Do choose to live your life with a purpose, whether it is to help others in need, or in your spare time you can assist a charity or animal rescue shelter, or you can travel to other countries and offer your services to an organization that does require help then you will be fulfilling your life purpose. Every day that is lived with an intent to do good for yourself and others is a purposeful day that is lived. The effects of your goodness will ripple out time and again to others. So live your life each day with a great purpose in mind and fulfil it daily.

 

Finding Soulmate With The Universe

Soulmate attraction

Soulmate attraction

In life we tend to look for a soulmate as we think by having one in your life that it will make it complete. Do realize that soulmates do come in to your life in many ways, such as friends, family members and yes pets. But of course like many singles they would want to be with a romantic soul mate that is sharing life with a partner. So finding soulmate for some could be difficult only cause they think that, rather it is better to understand that the universe is so big and your soulmate will soon be a part of your life.

The universe puts out big signs that tell you this is the one that is for you, and of course at times we can be so blind and not read the signs that stare at us in the face, or there have been many occasions where your soulmate was right underneath your nose and yet you could not see it, until you got a big wake up call and the universe shook your world to make you aware that this is the one. So read on so you know when it is happening to you.

Instant recognition

Regardless if it is a platonic or romantic soulmate there is an inner knowing as you get this feeling of mutual understanding which occurs almost instantly upon meeting each other, and as time passes it does get deeper and truer as you do get to know each other that much better. So what can start out as a shared laugh over something that you both found mutually funny could lead to a lifetime of mutual laughter. So do take note of any moments of an instant connection with any people that you meet, as you never know where it will take you.

The coincidence factor

So as you go about your relationship you will know if it is your soul mate  as there will be signs that surround you guiding you along the journey, coincidences will abound, as an example you could admire a beautiful red rose, and then you find that your soul mate turns around and sees you later that evening and is holding a beautiful bunch of red roses etc this is the universes way of  sending you those little affirmations that the two of you are meant to be together, so do not ignore the signs rather take heed of them.

Your gut instinct

That is right your gut instinct will tell you if they are your soulmate or not. For many couples who have been married for decades  they will often state that they had a sense of knowing their partner was the one, the moment that they laid eyes on each other. Of course there are other ways in which you can experience this also such as a experiencing a little wave of intensity, or you will find that your heart might beat a little faster, so take note of the gut feelings that are telling you this is it this is the one.

Feeling a sense of urgency or magnetism

If you find yourself in the vicinity of a soul mate more than likely you will probably feel drawn to them or pulled toward them. You might also feel a sense of  urgency such as I need to talk to that person right now. We do easily dismiss these feelings that we get, as they come out of nowhere and they just do not make any sense, but do yourself a favour if you feel that pull then follow it as it is the universe that is nudging you down a path so do follow it.

Wrong place wrong time, but right place right time in meeting  your soulmate

You no doubt have been in situations where you felt that you were at the wrong place or wrong time but it actually turns out to be perfect timing in meeting your soulmate.

Usually when about to meet a soul mate it could start with some sort of hiccup in your daily routine, or you find that something will go wrong, or your plans are all falling apart, this has happened for a reason, at the time it all seems like such an inconvenience which it is meant to be but the beauty of it all happening that way as the door opens to meet your soulmate as an example you are on your way to work and you find that you have a flat tyre so rather than fixing it you plan instead to catch the train or bus.

As you manage to find your self a seat using public transport you find that you sat right next to your soulmate or you lock yourself out of your car in the car park of a busy shopping centre, then up comes your soulmate and helps you to unlock your car. Or you lost your pet and go to the local centre to see if it has been handed in and there is your pooch with your future soul partner who is trying to find its owner. Oh the wonders of the universe as they have fun in setting us up to meet our soul partners in fun and unusual ways. So all the hassle is worth it at the end as you have found your soul partner from it all.

6. Premonitions

There can be times where you will get a premonition of meeting your future soul mate such as in a dream or a déjà vu type of sensation, there have been people also that have also drawn pictures randomly of their future soulmate, or wrote a poem or a story about their future soulmate. Or you can wake up one morning and have a knowing that today is going to be different something good is going to happen you sense an excitement within you, and you cannot place your finger on it, but you are compelled to add a dab of perfume or style your hair, or put on that special dress that flatters you, off you go about your day and nothing much happens, and you think well that was a crazy notion that you had, and not long after that thought this is where your day turns out to be exactly that, the excitement hits you hard as you stare unexpectedly into your future soulmates eyes as the unexpected but expected has happened. You are both in the fruit store picking out apples and you both reach out for the same one, yes you guessed it your premonition has just unfolded for you.

In conclusion

The universe is great in its ways of showing us signs in that we are going to meet our soulmate they nudge us along in directions and when we start to date our soulmate they give you plenty of signs that this is the one for you. So if you are single or are in a relationship then do look out for the signs and enjoy each and every day as each day passes it gets you one day closer to meeting your soul mate!

Are You A Love Obsessive Person?

Do you find that when you love someone that it becomes love obsessive, and before you know it you find that the sparkle has gone for you, and you move onto find that love feeling again. You enjoy living in the bubble of love as this is where you feel safe and very much loved as soon as it bursts you think that the love has gone so you go in search for new love, forever searching for that permanent love feeling. Unfortunately this is a sickness, when we constantly seek that high that comes with falling in love. All that happens is you miss out on having the opportunity to experience what real love is.

How to stop the love obsessive feeling.

This is where you need to stop and think to yourself why do you seek so much this feeling for love, did you ever stop to think that it all starts with you and the only person that can truly love you is yourself. You will never find a love that will satisfy you as much as knowing the love that you can have for yourself time and again. So it is time to stop chasing love and embrace the love that is inside you for you. When you start to love yourself this is when you will stop looking and searching for love from others. As you will know that there is so much to love about you the beautiful person that is within in you, and that there are others that will love what is inside of you too. This is where real love is born.

Learn to love others completely

Once you can love yourself this is where you will not find fault and flaws with your partner once the love bubble bursts. As you are well aware that you are also not perfect and never will be, this is where your compassionate side can come through for yourself and for your partner. So what you do now see after the love bubble has burst the intense emotions of love are no longer beating away as rampantly as before rather it is still there blossoming away, wanting to grow into a deep and lasting love. This is where you will understand that the best way to maintain your love relationship is to enjoy having the benefit of a true friend, a loyal partner, and a faithful lover, one that will be there for you through the thick and thin, a respect grows stronger as you both choose to understand rather than to criticize, enjoying life in the moment. You choose to communicate rather than get angry and have arguments about issues.

Establishing a healthy love relationship

The more you are able to show appreciation, love, care and respect for your partner this is where they will give this to you also, of course no relationship is perfect and no relationship will ever be without its issues, rather it is about choices on how you choose to be in a relationship, what is it that you really want, of course many happy moments that become memorable, and of course a person that will care about your feelings and emotions, that will reach out to you when you are down, and they are there for you through the good the bad and the not so ugly and you are also there for them. It is about establishing healthy boundaries in the relationship and this is all done with effective and positive communication with each other, making sure that you both spend time together where you are both really able to let your hair down and relax and enjoy being together simply sharing time together from the hectic pace of living, also initiating and sharing loving intimate moments, making each other realize that in these moments you share that there is something that keeps the flame burning for you both and it is love.

In conclusion

If you are a person that is a love obsessive who is constantly looking for the high that love brings, then do seek professional help as this is not normal, and you are missing out on opportunities of experiencing real and everlasting love with another person. When we chase love time after time there will come a day, where you will wake up and realize that your life has passed by and you are still missing out and you have had many a relationship without them ever lasting. So do get the help that you need.

Win Man’s Heart

You can win a man's love

You can easily win a man’s love for you

So many women are looking for love, they want to capture a man’s heart so what does it take to get a man’s love for you, and go from casual dating with you to wanting and needing you on a deeper level. So here we will take you on a journey to understand what does go through a mans mind so you will know what it takes to trigger his love for you.

In saying this what I am divulging to you is about real men that are grounded on a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual level. These men are on a great path and are more than open about growing on a deeply personal level this is a man that you would classify as quality and he is looking for a real relationship. So we have listed below what a real man wants in a woman having these qualities she will win man's heart easily.

1. A playful woman

Men love to play and this is where it will help you to connect with them on a deeper level. The reason for this as they were raised to express themselves and connect with those around them through action. There are many women that are not aware of this and would rather talk their way into a man’s heart. So be aware that men do not feel it for you because of what you say rather it is the experiences that you are able to create with him. So why not watch or play sports together, whether it is competitive or casual games do add some teasing and some sarcasm here and there this is where you will really get his interest in you, and he will become more attracted to you.

2. Men love a woman that is independent.

Many women believe that men seek women that are weak so a man can feel like they are smarter and more powerful. The reality is men are not seeking this at all rather they want a woman that will inspire them because she has great things happening in her own life. They do seek a woman that has her own purpose other than being in a relationship with a man. A man that is confident  will not feel intimidated by her independence and success. What really matters to men is that a woman does have space in her life for a great relationship and that she is grounded and that she is with him. So the best way in which you can communicate this to a man is to stay busy in your own life and do not make him your world. So when you are with him really be with him, have fun and do give your attention to him and anything that you do end up doing together.

Emotionally mature

Men find it attractive when a woman is emotionally mature, of course there will be situations that will come up where you and a man will see things differently and of course misunderstand each other, of course being able to express yourself maturely enough where you do not blame or criticize a man for what he is actually feeling and be honest and authentic this helps the man understand you better, and of course he will find you that more attractive. So how a woman is able to handle her emotions is one of the most important things men will look for when deciding whether they are going to consider to really get serious with her. If you are a woman that does let her emotions to get out of control, then this is a big red flag to him. 

So if you can present your feelings to your man in a calm, non dramatic manner, you will win his respect and you will make him feel like you are the one for him. He will see that you can handle things with a cool head rather than being a damsel in distress that does need rescuing.

A man needs to be intensely attracted to you.

Too true men are afraid to commit to a relationship with a woman where there is no passion and attraction, what women do that actually does kill the attraction men may possibly have for them is by either trying too hard to get them to like you, or by acting that the relationship is too serious too soon. It is better to relax and do let things happen naturally. So do make sure that you do and say things that you interject with fun and humor into your relationship from the very start. As there is nothing more appealing to a man than a great woman who does know how to relax and also have fun. So do be playful, teasing, be a flirt also humor him, so rather than talking about what he does for a living when you meet him, rather ask him what sport he plays and what actually drives him. Once you do get into a relationship do not be afraid to shake things up between you. If your routine is to have lunch every Sunday, then do suggest something that is completely different such as a bike ride and a picnic. So when you are able to be spontaneous rather than sticking to a routine this is where it opens up to new experiences and this he will find very attractive.

In conclusion

So a man that does a want a woman where they can love her and adore her are looking for specific characteristics that will make him want her and get to know her on a deeper level, and of course will want to commit to her and have a life with her, so do take note of the above and become the woman than men want.

 

Learn The Secrets To Capture His Heart

So many women are looking for love, they want to capture his heart so what does it take to get a man’s love for you, and go from casual dating with you to wanting and needing you on a deeper level. So here we will take you on a journey to understand what does go through a mans mind so you will know what it takes to trigger his love for you. In saying this what I am divulging to you is about a real men that are grounded on a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual level. These men are on a great path and are more than open about growing on a deeply personal level this is a man that you would classify as quality and he is looking for a real relationship. So we have listed below what a real man wants in a woman.

1. A playful woman

Men love to play and this is where it will help you to connect with them on a deeper level. The reason for this as they were raised to express themselves and connect with those around them through action. There are many women that are not aware of this and would rather talk their way into a man’s heart. So be aware that men do not feel it for you because of what you say rather it is the experiences that you are able to create with him. So why not watch or play sports together, whether it is competitive or casual games do add some teasing and some sarcasm here and there this is where you will really get his interest in you, and he will become more attracted to you.

2. Men love a woman that is independent.

Many women believe that men seek women that are weak so a man can feel like they are smarter and more powerful. The reality is men are not seeking this at all rather they want a woman that will inspire them because she has great things happening in her own life. They do seek a woman that has her own purpose other than being in a relationship with a man. A man that is confident  will not feel intimidated by her independence and success.

What really matters to men is that a woman does have space in her life for a great relationship and that she is grounded and that she is with him. So the best way in which you can communicate this to a man is to stay busy in your own life and do not make him your world. So when you are with him really be with him, have fun and do give your attention to him and anything that you do end up doing together.

3. Emotionally mature

Men find it attractive when a woman is emotionally mature, of course there will be situations that will come up where you and a man will see things differently and of course misunderstand each other, of course being able to express yourself maturely enough where you do not blame or criticize a man for what he is actually feeling and be honest and authentic this helps the man understand you better, and of course he will find you that more attractive. So how a woman is able to handle her emotions is one of the most important things men will look for when deciding whether they are going to consider to really get serious with her. If you are a woman that does let her emotions to get out of control, then this is a big red flag to him. 

So if you can present your feelings to your man in a calm, non dramatic manner, you will win his respect and you will make him feel like you are the one for him. He will see that you can handle things with a cool head rather than being a damsel in distress that does need rescuing.

4. A man needs to be intensely attracted to you.

Too true men are afraid to commit to a relationship with a woman where there is no passion and attraction, what women do that actually does kill the attraction men may possibly have for them is by either trying too hard to get them to like you, or by acting that the relationship is too serious too soon. It is better to relax and do let things happen naturally. So do make sure that you do and say things that you interject with fun and humor into your relationship from the very start. As there is nothing more appealing to a man than a great woman who does know how to relax and also have fun.

So do be playful, teasing, be a flirt also humor him, so rather than talking about what he does for a living when you meet him, rather ask him what sport he plays and what actually drives him. Once you do get into a relationship do not be afraid to shake things up between you. If your routine is to have lunch every Sunday, then do suggest something that is completely different such as a bike ride and a picnic. So when you are able to be spontaneous rather than sticking to a routine this is where it opens up to new experiences and this he will find very attractive.

In conclusion

So a man that does a want a woman where they can love her and adore her are looking for specific characteristics that will make him want her and get to know her on a deeper level, and of course will want to commit to her and have a life with her, so do take note of the above and become the woman than men want.