What is true beauty? It is difficult to define, but we all understand what it is. In a lot of societies, beauty that is physical has its "acceptable norms" where as these norms would differ with other cultures. It can be difficult to really define when asked what does beautiful mean to you. For example when a beautiful woman is pointed out in a group, women and men can do this easily and sponteniously. As the saying goes, when it comes to great beauty, we will know it when we see it and with beauty guidance you will get to know how to get true inner beauty.
But you do need to be aware that there are people that would not admire beauty the same way. Beauty is a subjective experience. What it associates with is a persons feeling of attraction and emotions of well being. There is a saying often heard that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". It has been a fact that society has an expectation of women's beauty, which becomes an expectation, and women have a tendency to compare themselves to this.
So how is beauty truly defined? My best guess is, if we were to talk about women, it is the physical qualities that she possesses. It is the capability of a woman to be able to give gratification and enjoyment to a person's senses. The admirer's positive feeling of pleasure or goodness is usually derived from the woman's body shape, clothes that she wears or how attractive her facial features are, amongst others.
More important though is beauty can also be about a woman's personality. It is about her having compassion and able to assist others, a person that you can cry on their shoulder and has respect for others and self respect, able to show kindness to people and animals, shows love to others and able to love herself. This is described as inner beauty which comes about from having the right dose of self-confidence and a healthy self-esteem.
While this is not usually the first thing that comes to our mind when we talk about beauty, inner beauty plays just as an important role in how beautiful a person appears to be. Maybe more so than outer beauty does.
Inner beauty is not something that unattractive people say to our self to feel better. It is the inner beauty that can be more so captivating than the outer beauty of appearance.
True inner beauty may be described as something that is experienced through a person's character rather than by appearances. It is the real beauty of a person that goes far beyond just physical appearances.
When a woman has her inner belief that they are attractive this will definately be more appealing to other people. There is a glow of aplomb and physical attractiveness that radiates from within her. There are people that are not what you would call physically attractive but it is their glowing confidence and their healthy self esteem that does make them appear attractive to the opposite sex.
What you need to be aware of is that first impressions do not always depend on your facial features and physique. You do have to believe that it is from within ourselves. This is where true beauty resides. When a conversation occurs between people automatically we assess each other as a pleasant or not so pleasant person. While the conversation progresses between people each will pick up on the qualities and traits that will emanate and this is where people will see a persona as more beautiful or charming.
If we are able to love, appreciate and have feel good feelings about ourselves, we would therefore feel more confident facing and mixing with other people. The outer beauty does attract many glances but it is the inner beauty that will always make someone stay. This is the true essence of healthy self esteem.
Naturally, we will notice a person's physical appearance first. However, when a woman have bright eyes that flicker, a smile that warms the heart, a radiant glow that surrounds her when she walks into a room; she has obviously harnessed her inner beauty.
The uniqueness of inner beauty is that unlike our outward appearance, it does not go grey, wrinkle or diminish with age. It will only radiates stronger as we cultivate it.
It is only as this happens that you will see your self as a beautiful woman.